The model of ethnic democracy: Israel as a Jewish and democratic state. By Sammy Smooha. Nations and Nationalism, Vol. 8, No. 2 (October 2002). Earlier version at European Centre for Minority Issues.
Can Israel Be Both Jewish and Democratic? By Ruth Gavison. Social Science Research Network, January 1, 2011.
The Jews’ Right to Statehood: A Defense. By Ruth Gavison. Azure, No. 15 (Summer 2003).
Ruth Gavison Offers a Vision of a Democratic, Jewish Israel. By Leslie Evans. UCLA, February 19, 2004.
Jewish and Democratic?: A Rejoinder to the “Ethnic Democracy” Debate. By Ruth Gavison. Israel Studies, Vol. 4, No. 1 (Spring 1999).
The Rise of Secondary States in the Iron Age Levant. By Alexander H. Joffe. Journal of the Economic and Social History of the Orient, Vol. 45, No. 2 (2002).
On the antiquity of ethnic states, going back to around 1000 BC. Ancient Israel, the kingdom of David, was one of the first ethnic states.
Joffe:
“Ethnic
states” are not types or stages in an evolutionary scheme. Rather they are
novel and historically contingent political systems which appear in the Levant
during the first millennium BCE thanks to the confluence of several factors,
not least of all the collapse of imperial domination and the longstanding
city-state system. New forms of local identity and organization developed
during the centuries of relative dislocation, which were later utilized in part
by reemergent elites. The phenomenon has recurred periodically in the
interstices between larger units such as empires, along the margins, and during
periods of collapse. This approach necessarily sees the clustering of certain
behaviors, symbols, and historical evidence as indicative of “ethnic” or
identity organized groups (contra Jones 1997). The extensive use of symbolism
and particular forms of administration make the “ethnic state” archaeologically
detectable.
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Sunday, February 16, 2014
Why Anti-Zionist Jews Are a Minority. By Jonathan S. Tobin.
Why Anti-Zionist Jews Are a Minority. By Jonathan S. Tobin. Commentary, February 16, 2014.
A Conflict of Faith: Devoted to Jewish Observance, but at Odds With Israel. By Mark Oppenheimer. New York Times, February 14, 2014.
The Magnes Zionist in the New York Times. By Charles H. Manekin. The Magnes Zionist, February 10, 2014.
Hell freezes over (NYT publishes glowing profiles of anti-Zionists). By Philip Weiss. Mondoweiss, February 15, 2014.
Orthodox Jew? Hate Israel? The New York Times Wants to Interview You. By Yarden Frankl. HonestReporting, February 16, 2014.
Glorifying Fringe Jewish Extremists at the NY Times. By Ronn Torossian. FrontPage Magazine, February 18, 2014.
The Quirkiness of the Israel-Free Jews. By Shmuel Rosner. Jewish Journal, February 18, 2014.
Why Religious Judaism Is Tied to Nationalism. By Liel Leibovitz. Tablet, February 18, 2014.
Replies to Shmuel Rosner and Liel Leibovitz. By Charles H. Manekin. The Magnes Zionist, February 18, 2014.
Zionism without a Jewish state. By Charles H. Manekin. The Magnes Zionist, August 12, 2007.
Tobin:
It is a principle of journalism that news consists of those events that are out of the ordinary. The old cliché is that when man bites dog, it’s news. A dog biting a man is not. Thus, the conceit of the New York Times Beliefs column feature on Friday met that basic standard for newsworthiness. A story about religious Jews who actively oppose the existence of the State of Israel is one in which it must be conceded that the subjects are unusual.
The Pew
Research Center of U.S. Jews published in October reported that 91 percent of
Orthodox Jews, 88 percent of Conservative Jews, and even 70 percent of those
who identified themselves as Reform Jews are either very or somewhat
emotionally attached to Israel. That means any discussion about observant Jews
who are anti-Zionists is, by definition, one about a very tiny minority. But
considering that three of the five Jews whose views are featured in the piece
seem to fall into the category of Modern Orthodox, of whom 99 percent told Pew
they were very or somewhat attached to Israel with one percent saying “not very
attached” and zero percent “not at all attached,” the trio constitute a sample
of a group that is not merely a minority but one so small that it is
statistically insignificant.
Once
that is understood, it becomes clear that one of the main failings of the
article is not only the fact that its author has no interest in challenging
their views but that it fails to put that fact in proper perspective. The
Orthodox trio and the one Conservative Jew and one Reconstructionist movement
rabbi (whose views may not be all that out of the ordinary among that small
left-leaning demographic) highlighted are a peculiar minority. But the
willingness of the paper to give them such favorable attention illustrates once
again the falsity of the notion that it takes courage for Jews to oppose
Israel. To the contrary, as was made clear last week by the controversy over
two Manhattan rabbis who defied many of the congregants by signing a letter
denouncing the American Israel Public Affairs Committee (AIPAC), those Jews who
publicly denounce Israel can always look forward to the applause of the
mainstream media.
While
this quintet are entitled to their views about Israel and appear to be none the
worse for wear for being so determined to flout the views of their
co-religionists, two aspects of the article are particularly objectionable. One
is the article’s assumption that there is something remarkable about the fact
that they are able to go about their business while living in a Jewish
community and attending synagogue without much trouble. The second is the
failure of the piece to acknowledge that the views their subjects express are
inherently bigoted.
It
should be acknowledged that the article is correct when it states that prior to
1948, support for Zionism was not universal among American Jews. Many Jews,
especially those affiliated with “classic” Reform temples, viewed it as a
threat to the rights of American Jews to be treated as equal citizens in the
United States. The reason the adherents of that view declined from minority
status to statistical insignificance is that Israel’s creation did no such
thing. To the contrary, the creation of a Jewish state only a few years after
the Nazis and their collaborators had killed nearly one third of the Jews on
the planet engendered the respect of other Americans as well as enhancing the
self-esteem of every Jew in the world whether he or she was religious or a
Zionist.
Israel
gained its independence because the Jews had a right to sovereignty in their
ancient homeland and not as compensation for the Holocaust. The sweat and the
blood of the Jews who built Israel and fought to defend it earned that
independence. But the Holocaust made it abundantly clear, even to those who had
never previously given the idea their support, that without a Jewish state to
defend them, Diaspora Jews who had not been lucky enough to make it the United
States or the other English-speaking countries that had not succumbed to the
Nazis would always be at the mercy of violent anti-Semitism. That was just as
true of Jews who lived in Muslim and Arab countries (who were forced to flee
their homes after 1948) as it was of the Jews of Europe. Theodor Herzl’s
understanding of the inevitable fate of a homeless Jewry—a thesis that he
adopted after seeing Alfred Dreyfus being degraded in Paris as a mob shouted,
“Death to the Jews”—was sadly vindicated by the events of the first half of the
20th century.
Though
their neighbors and fellow congregants treat them with the toleration that
Israel’s foes do not extend to the Jewish state, the common failing of the five
anti-Zionist Jews in the Times story
is their failure to account for this basic historical lesson that the rest of
their community understands. One need not support every action of the
government of the State of Israel or have no sympathy for the plight of the
Palestinians to understand that not only does Israel have a right to exist but
that its fall would endanger the lives of its people and, by extension, Jews
everywhere. The notion put forward by one of the subjects that “non-statist
Zionism” would succeed was exploded several decades ago by the refusal of Arab
opponents of the Jewish presence in Israel/Palestine to accept Jews on any
terms.
Nor
does the article ask its subjects why the Jews, of all peoples, should be asked
to forgo the right to their own country when no other nation is required to do
so. Cynthia Ozick famously wrote that universalism is the parochialism of the
Jews. But it takes a particularly perverse kind of universalism to say that
Jews should have fewer rights than other peoples.
But
what is particularly disingenuous about the Times
article is the unwillingness to hold its subjects accountable for the thinly
veiled anti-Semitism that often masquerades as anti-Zionism in contemporary
debates. Groups like Jewish Voices for Peace—which is supported by one of the
quintet—aren’t content to support liberal Israelis or to criticize Israel’s
government. Instead it seeks to wage economic warfare on Israel in order to
destroy it. If the only imperfect state that is seen as worthy of such a fate
is the one Jewish one—rather than the many others founded on national or
religious principles—then it is clear that the driving force behind
anti-Zionism is prejudice and not concern about human rights. Websites like
Mondoweiss, to which one of the five contributes, similarly trades in
anti-Jewish stereotypes in its campaign against Zionism.
What
the overwhelming majority of Jews know that these five people and their adoring
audience at the Times don’t is that
opposition to Israel’s existence—as opposed to criticism of it—is taking a
stand against the right of the Jewish people to life. While there is a portion
of the ultra-Orthodox community that also holds to anti-Zionism because of
their own bizarre interpretation of Judaism (which strangely goes unmentioned
in the article), non-Haredim who do so are fighting common sense, history, and
the basic principles of fairness. If those who adopt such positions are a
minority, it is not due to any resistance on the part of the majority to ethics
or concern for others but because of the implausibility of their beliefs.
Oppenheimer:
There is no question that Charles H. Manekin is a rarity. Not because he is an Orthodox Jew who keeps the Sabbath, refraining from driving, turning on lights, even riding in elevators on Saturdays. Rather, this philosophy professor at the University of Maryland is rare because he believes that his Orthodox faith calls him to take stands against Israel.
Professor
Manekin, 61, became Orthodox in college and became an Israeli citizen in the
1980s. Yet in an interview this week, he denounced Israel’s “excessive
reliance” on military force, its treatment of Arab citizens and its occupation
of the West Bank. Although not a member of the American Studies Association, he
was pleased when the group voted in December not to collaborate with Israeli
academic institutions — the “academic boycott.” He is “sympathetic” to B.D.S.,
as the global movement to boycott, divest from, and sanction Israel is known.
“As a
religious Jew,” he said, “I am especially disturbed by the daily injustices
perpetrated against the Palestinians.”
The
vast majority of Jews consider themselves supportive of Israel. They may
quarrel with various Israeli policies, but since the state’s founding in 1948,
and especially since the 1967 war, Zionism has been a common denominator of
world Jewry.
And
while there have always been anti- or non-Zionist Jews, today they cluster on
the less observant end of Judaism, among secular or religiously liberal Jews.
In such a world, Professor Manekin — a modern Orthodox Jew in a skullcap whose
religion moves him to oppose Israel — is exceedingly rare.
Zionism
was not always the norm among American Jews. Nevertheless, those committed to
Jewish practice but openly at odds with Israel are now likely to find
themselves at odds with their friends and family. In the past couple of months,
events like the American Studies vote and the endorsement by the actress Scarlett Johansson of a seltzer-maker in the occupied West Bank have multiplied
the opportunities for tense family dinners.
Professor
Manekin spends about half the year in Israel, where his children and
grandchildren live, so he is hardly boycotting the country with his own dollars
(or shekels). But since 2007 he has regularly offered criticisms of Israel on
his blog, The Magnes Zionist. It is named for Judah L. Magnes, an American
rabbi who, until his death in 1948, argued that a Jewish return to the Middle
East did not require a nation-state.
“People
look at ‘non-statist Zionism’ as the type that lost,” Professor Manekin said
this week, referring to Rabbi Magnes’s philosophy. “But I found a lot of what
they were saying resonated today, and a lot of their predictions about endless
war had come to pass.”
Manekin [The Magnes Zionist in the NYT]:
The piece says my religion leads me “to oppose Israel.” That’s ambiguous; it could mean “oppose Israel’s policies” (yes) or “oppose how the Jewish state was envisioned and came into being” (yes), or “oppose the very idea of a Jewish state” (that depends). No, I am not opposed to any Jewish state. As my colleague, Jerome Slater, has said, I don’t have a problem with a Jewish state – it’s this Jewish state I have a problem with. I can imagine Israel evolving into a liberal state of all its citizens, a state that fosters both Hebrew culture and a connection with the Jewish people, and a state that sees its non-Jewish citizens as belonging with the Jews to the Israeli nation – a Hebrew (and Arabic) Republic, to use Bernard Avishai’s phrase. I can also see Israel/Palestine evolving into a binational state or a federation, or whatever. What I insist upon is that both peoples – the Israeli and the Palestinian – have maximum self-determination, maximum security, and maximum opportunity for life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. And that cannot be done, in my opinion, within the framework of the current ethnically-exclusivist state that is mired in nineteenth religio-ethnic nationalism. Rightly called by Oren Yiftachel an “ethnocracy,” Israel presents itself to the world and to itself as a liberal democracy. In fact, it is marching backward and not forward.
My idea
of a Jewish state is a state that Jews and Palestinians can be proud of, and
that incorporates in its public space and public support elements of the Jewish
and Palestinian cultural past. With over
five million Israeli Jews, I am not looking to de-Judaize the culture of the
state of Israel. But I would separate religion and state, and when the
Palestinian Israeli writer Sayed Kashua writes a column in Hebrew in
Haaretz, I, as an Israeli, celebrate my
fellow Israeli as an Israeli writer, a member of the Israeli people. But the
phrase the Israeli people is
one you will never hear in Israel – it’s only Am Yisrael, the Jewish people. And I don’t want a nation-state of
the Jewish people in that sense.
But
don’t the Jews have a right, like other peoples, to a state of their own? No
they don’t, and neither do other peoples. Self-determination, yes; statehood,
that depends – and never at the expense of other people’s rights, in this case,
the natives of Palestine.
A Conflict of Faith: Devoted to Jewish Observance, but at Odds With Israel. By Mark Oppenheimer. New York Times, February 14, 2014.
The Magnes Zionist in the New York Times. By Charles H. Manekin. The Magnes Zionist, February 10, 2014.
Hell freezes over (NYT publishes glowing profiles of anti-Zionists). By Philip Weiss. Mondoweiss, February 15, 2014.
Orthodox Jew? Hate Israel? The New York Times Wants to Interview You. By Yarden Frankl. HonestReporting, February 16, 2014.
Glorifying Fringe Jewish Extremists at the NY Times. By Ronn Torossian. FrontPage Magazine, February 18, 2014.
The Quirkiness of the Israel-Free Jews. By Shmuel Rosner. Jewish Journal, February 18, 2014.
Why Religious Judaism Is Tied to Nationalism. By Liel Leibovitz. Tablet, February 18, 2014.
Replies to Shmuel Rosner and Liel Leibovitz. By Charles H. Manekin. The Magnes Zionist, February 18, 2014.
Zionism without a Jewish state. By Charles H. Manekin. The Magnes Zionist, August 12, 2007.
Tobin:
It is a principle of journalism that news consists of those events that are out of the ordinary. The old cliché is that when man bites dog, it’s news. A dog biting a man is not. Thus, the conceit of the New York Times Beliefs column feature on Friday met that basic standard for newsworthiness. A story about religious Jews who actively oppose the existence of the State of Israel is one in which it must be conceded that the subjects are unusual.
Oppenheimer:
There is no question that Charles H. Manekin is a rarity. Not because he is an Orthodox Jew who keeps the Sabbath, refraining from driving, turning on lights, even riding in elevators on Saturdays. Rather, this philosophy professor at the University of Maryland is rare because he believes that his Orthodox faith calls him to take stands against Israel.
Manekin [The Magnes Zionist in the NYT]:
The piece says my religion leads me “to oppose Israel.” That’s ambiguous; it could mean “oppose Israel’s policies” (yes) or “oppose how the Jewish state was envisioned and came into being” (yes), or “oppose the very idea of a Jewish state” (that depends). No, I am not opposed to any Jewish state. As my colleague, Jerome Slater, has said, I don’t have a problem with a Jewish state – it’s this Jewish state I have a problem with. I can imagine Israel evolving into a liberal state of all its citizens, a state that fosters both Hebrew culture and a connection with the Jewish people, and a state that sees its non-Jewish citizens as belonging with the Jews to the Israeli nation – a Hebrew (and Arabic) Republic, to use Bernard Avishai’s phrase. I can also see Israel/Palestine evolving into a binational state or a federation, or whatever. What I insist upon is that both peoples – the Israeli and the Palestinian – have maximum self-determination, maximum security, and maximum opportunity for life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. And that cannot be done, in my opinion, within the framework of the current ethnically-exclusivist state that is mired in nineteenth religio-ethnic nationalism. Rightly called by Oren Yiftachel an “ethnocracy,” Israel presents itself to the world and to itself as a liberal democracy. In fact, it is marching backward and not forward.
Anti-Semitic Play on Egyptian TV: Mossad Agents Behind the Arab Spring.
Anti-Semitic Play on Egyptian TV: Mossad Agents Behind the Arab Spring. MEMRI. Video Clip No. 4153, February 16, 2014. YouTube. Also at Elder of Ziyon.
The U.S. Middle Class Is Turning Proletarian. By Joel Kotkin.
The U.S. Middle Class Is Turning Proletarian. By Joel Kotkin. Forbes, February 16, 2014. Also at New Geography, JoelKotkin.com.
Our Proletarian Middle Class. By Walter Russell Mead and Staff. The American Interest, February 19, 2014.
Kotkin:
The biggest issue facing the American economy, and our political system, is the gradual descent of the middle class into proletarian status. This process, which has been going on intermittently since the 1970s, has worsened considerably over the past five years, and threatens to turn this century into one marked by downward mobility.
The
decline has less to do with the power of the “one percent” per se than with the
drying up of opportunity amid what is seen on Wall Street and in the White
House as a sustained recovery. Despite President Obama’s rhetorical devotion to
reducing inequality, it has widened significantly under his watch. Not only did
the income of the middle 60% of households drop between 2010 and 2012 while
that of the top 20% rose, the income of the middle 60% declined by a greater
percentage than the poorest quintile. The middle 60% of earners’ share of the
national pie has fallen from 53% in 1970 to 45% in 2012.
This
group, what I call the yeoman class — the small business owners, the suburban
homeowners , the family farmers or skilled construction tradespeople– is increasingly
endangered. Once the dominant class in America, it is clearly shrinking: In the
four decades since 1971 the percentage of Americans earning between two-thirds
and twice the national median income has dropped from 61% to 51% of the
population, according to Pew.
Roughly
one in three people born into middle class-households , those between the 30th
and 70th percentiles of income, now fall out of that status as adults.
Neither
party has a reasonable program to halt the decline of the middle class. Previous
generations of liberals — say Walter Reuther, Hubert Humphrey, Harry Truman,
Pat Brown — recognized broad-based economic growth was a necessary precursor to
upward mobility and social justice. However, many in the new wave of
progressives engage in fantastical economics built around such things as “urban
density” and “green jobs,” while adopting policies that restrict growth in
manufacturing, energy and housing. When all else fails, some, like Oregon’s
John Kitzhaber, try to change the topic by advocating shifting emphasis from
measures of economic growth to “happiness.”
Other
more ideologically robust liberals, like New York Mayor Bill de Blasio, call
for a strong policy of redistribution, something with particular appeal in a
city with one of the highest levels of income inequality in the country. Over
time a primarily redistributionist approach may improve some material
conditions, but is likely to help create a permanent underclass of dependents,
including part-time workers, perpetual students, and service employees living
hand to mouth, who can make ends meet only if taxpayers subsidize their
housing, transportation and other necessities.
Given
the challenge being mounted by de Blasio and hard left Democrats, one would
imagine that business and conservative leaders would try to concoct a response.
But for the most part, particularly at the national level, they offer little
more than bromides about low taxes, particularly for the well-heeled investor
and rentier classes, while some still bank on largely irrelevant positions on
key social issues to divert the middle class from their worsening economic
plight.
The
country’s rise to world preeminence and admiration stemmed from the fact that
its prosperity was widely shared. In the first decades after the Second World
War, when the percentage of households earning middle incomes doubled to 60%,
it was no mirage, but a fundamental accomplishment of enlightened capitalism.
In
contrast, the current downgrading of the middle class undermines the appeal of
the “democratic capitalism” that so many conservative intellectuals espouse. In
reality, capitalism is becoming less democratic: stock ownership has become
more concentrated, with the percentage of adult Americans owning stock the lowest since 1999 and a full 13 points less than 2007. The fact that poverty —
reflected in such things as an expansion of food stamp use — has now spread
beyond the cities to the suburbs, something much celebrated among urban-centric
pundits, is further confirmation of the yeomanry’s stark decline.
How our
political leaders respond to this challenge of downward mobility will define
the future of our Republic. Some see a future shaped by automation that would
“permanently end” what one author calls “the age of mass human labor,” allowing
productivity to rise without significant increases in wages. In this world, the
current American middle and working class would be economically passé.
One
would hope business would have a better option that would restart upward
mobility. Lower taxes on the investor class, less regulation of Wall Street,
and the mass immigration of cheap workers — all the rage among investment
bankers, tech oligarchs and those with inherited wealth — does not constitute a
compelling program of middle-class uplift. Nor does resistance, particularly
among the Tea Party, to make the human and physical infrastructure investment
that could help restore strong economic growth.
Fortunately
history gives us hope that this decline can be turned around. The early decades
of the Industrial Revolution saw a similar societal decline, as once
independent artisans and farmers became fodder for the factory lines. Divorce
and drunkenness grew as religious attendance failed. But a pattern of reform,
in Britain, America and even Germany, helped restore labor’s place in the
economy, and rapid growth provided the basis not only for the expansion of the
middle class, but remarkably improvements in its well-being.
A
pro-growth program today could take several forms that defy the narrow logic of
both left and right. We can encourage the growth of high-wage, blue-collar
industries such as construction, energy and manufacturing. We can also reform
taxes so that the burdens fall less on employers and employees, as opposed to
those who simply profit from asset inflation. And rather than impose huge
tuitions on students who might not finish with a degree that offers employment
opportunities, let’s place new emphasis on practical skills training for both
the new generation and those being left behind in this “recovery.” Most
importantly, the benefits of capitalism need be more widely shared if business
hopes to gain support from the middle class for their agenda.
Our Proletarian Middle Class. By Walter Russell Mead and Staff. The American Interest, February 19, 2014.
Kotkin:
The biggest issue facing the American economy, and our political system, is the gradual descent of the middle class into proletarian status. This process, which has been going on intermittently since the 1970s, has worsened considerably over the past five years, and threatens to turn this century into one marked by downward mobility.
Gideon Levy: Baron of the Israel Falsehood Industry. By Ben Dror Yemini.
Gideon Levy: Baron of the Falsehood Industry. By Ben Dror Yemini. CAMERA. Originally published in Maariv in Hebrew, October 15, 2010. Also here.
Haaretz, Gideon Levy, and the Israel apartheid canard. By Ben Dror Yemini. The Times of Israel, October 26, 2012.
Gideon Levy: The Most Hated Man in Israel – and the Most Heroic. By Johann Hari. The Huffington Post, September 23, 2010. Also at The Independent.
Gideon Levi: I Hate “Settlers,” and I’m Proud of It. By David Lev. Arutz Sheva 7, November 8, 2012.
Israelis’ ideal state: A country without criticism. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, May 23, 2010.
Racism has reared its head and the public is apathetic. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, December 23, 2010. Also here.
When Did It Become Illegal to Be a Leftist in Israel? By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, January 6, 2011.
Israel is the most naïve and racist country in the West. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, May 31, 2012.
Survey: Most Israeli Jews Wouldn’t Give Palestinians Vote if West Bank Was Annexed. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, October 23, 2012.
Apartheid without shame or guilt. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, October 23, 2012.
Israel’s Apartheid reality: Gideon Levy’s “In Praise of Superland.” By Kim Bullimore. Live From Occupied Palestine, June 9, 2013. Translation by Sol Salbe of Levy’s article in the Hebrew edition of Haaretz, June 4, 2013. This is a vicious anti-Israel, pro-BDS website.
The migrants aren’t the problem – Israel’s racism is. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, December 22, 2013.
Blood, crime, Russian immigrants and racism; an apology. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, December 26, 2013.
The life-threatening obsession with the Jewish state. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, January 19, 2014.
Haaretz Calls Idea of Jewish State “Obsession.” By Yori Yanover. The Jewish Press, January 19, 2014.
Who’s afraid of a binational state? By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, February 2, 2014.
John Kerry’s Mideast peace deal is a disaster. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, February 13, 2014.
Eradicate the Jewish state. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, February 16, 2014.
The World Is Sick of Israel and Its Insanities. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, June 26, 2014.
Is Gideon Levy a liar or does he just ignore the news he doesn’t want to see? Elder of Ziyon, June 26, 2014.
“United States of Israel” has compromised U.S. “sovereignty” on Iran policy — Gideon Levy in D.C. By Philip Weiss. Mondoweiss, April 12, 2015.
Israeli Propaganda Isn't Fooling Anyone Except Israelis. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, June 4, 2015.
Levy says BDS may undo Israeli denial and propaganda– even as Lapid calls it Hamas’s “puppet.” By Philip Weiss. Mondoweiss, June 7, 2015.
Israel’s “Jewish Majority” Obsession. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, September 13, 2015.
Ari Shavit called Gideon Levy an “enemy of the Jewish people” for wanting secular, democratic state. By Ira Glunts. Mondoweiss, November 22, 2013. Video at YouTube.
Video transcript:
Dan Margalit (host): If two peoples seriously intend to live in peace, the Palestinians shouldn’t have a problem with Ofra or Ariel staying where they are. Let’s say that we stole the land. Let’s say that we’ll pay for the land. We’re a people that pays for land – ever since the days of the Cave of Machpelah [i.e. the time of Abraham -trans.]…. That’s not the point. The point is your rejection of the very idea – not yours, maybe, Abu Mazen’s, Yasser Arafat’s – of the very idea that a Jewish community [Heb. “yishuv”] can exist in the heart of Palestine.
Gideon Levy: Why? Would
you allow the Arabs of Nablus to live in Tel Aviv?
Margalit: What’s the connection?
Levy: Ah, suddenly. What’s
the connection?
Shavit: You’re a total
demagogue. They don’t recognise the state of the Jewish people. They don’t
recognize the Jewish people and its right. That’s the issue. That’s what you’re
ignoring. You always take this extreme part.
Levy: You are the extreme right.
I have nothing to discuss with you. You are a spokesman of the extreme right,
masquerading.
Shavit: Gideon, You want a
secular, democratic state. You’re worse than the extremists among the
Palestinians.
Levy: Terrific. OK. Perfect.
Anti-Semite.
Shavit: And this is a kind of
anti-Semitism, an unwillingness to recognize the right of the Jewish people to
self-determination.
Levy: [Just] say Nazi.
Shavit: No, this is an extreme
anti-Israeli approach that you spread like poison around the world. And then
you call it demagoguery. This is demagoguery of the worst kind, your
demagoguery.
Levy: I’m a little tired of
Ari Shavit. Who tries to have it all. It is . . . I want to refresh people’s
memory, once and for all. We came to a country inhabited by another people.
Margalit: Oh, delegitimizing of
Israel. We understand.
Shavit: Then let’s leave.
That’s why you’re not worried about Iran, because you agree with Ahmedinejad.
You think we should go back to Austria. That’s what you’re saying.
Levy: [Just say] Adolf
Hitler.
Shavit: When you talk like
this, when you don’t recognize the right of the Jewish people, when you don’t
want a national home for the Jewish people, you are a partner of the enemies of
Israel [also “the Jewish people” - trans.].
Haaretz, Gideon Levy, and the Israel apartheid canard. By Ben Dror Yemini. The Times of Israel, October 26, 2012.
Gideon Levy: The Most Hated Man in Israel – and the Most Heroic. By Johann Hari. The Huffington Post, September 23, 2010. Also at The Independent.
Gideon Levi: I Hate “Settlers,” and I’m Proud of It. By David Lev. Arutz Sheva 7, November 8, 2012.
Israelis’ ideal state: A country without criticism. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, May 23, 2010.
Racism has reared its head and the public is apathetic. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, December 23, 2010. Also here.
When Did It Become Illegal to Be a Leftist in Israel? By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, January 6, 2011.
Israel is the most naïve and racist country in the West. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, May 31, 2012.
Survey: Most Israeli Jews Wouldn’t Give Palestinians Vote if West Bank Was Annexed. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, October 23, 2012.
Apartheid without shame or guilt. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, October 23, 2012.
Israel’s Apartheid reality: Gideon Levy’s “In Praise of Superland.” By Kim Bullimore. Live From Occupied Palestine, June 9, 2013. Translation by Sol Salbe of Levy’s article in the Hebrew edition of Haaretz, June 4, 2013. This is a vicious anti-Israel, pro-BDS website.
The migrants aren’t the problem – Israel’s racism is. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, December 22, 2013.
Blood, crime, Russian immigrants and racism; an apology. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, December 26, 2013.
The life-threatening obsession with the Jewish state. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, January 19, 2014.
Haaretz Calls Idea of Jewish State “Obsession.” By Yori Yanover. The Jewish Press, January 19, 2014.
Who’s afraid of a binational state? By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, February 2, 2014.
John Kerry’s Mideast peace deal is a disaster. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, February 13, 2014.
Eradicate the Jewish state. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, February 16, 2014.
The World Is Sick of Israel and Its Insanities. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, June 26, 2014.
Is Gideon Levy a liar or does he just ignore the news he doesn’t want to see? Elder of Ziyon, June 26, 2014.
“United States of Israel” has compromised U.S. “sovereignty” on Iran policy — Gideon Levy in D.C. By Philip Weiss. Mondoweiss, April 12, 2015.
Israeli Propaganda Isn't Fooling Anyone Except Israelis. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, June 4, 2015.
Levy says BDS may undo Israeli denial and propaganda– even as Lapid calls it Hamas’s “puppet.” By Philip Weiss. Mondoweiss, June 7, 2015.
Israel’s “Jewish Majority” Obsession. By Gideon Levy. Haaretz, September 13, 2015.
Ari Shavit called Gideon Levy an “enemy of the Jewish people” for wanting secular, democratic state. By Ira Glunts. Mondoweiss, November 22, 2013. Video at YouTube.
Video transcript:
Dan Margalit (host): If two peoples seriously intend to live in peace, the Palestinians shouldn’t have a problem with Ofra or Ariel staying where they are. Let’s say that we stole the land. Let’s say that we’ll pay for the land. We’re a people that pays for land – ever since the days of the Cave of Machpelah [i.e. the time of Abraham -trans.]…. That’s not the point. The point is your rejection of the very idea – not yours, maybe, Abu Mazen’s, Yasser Arafat’s – of the very idea that a Jewish community [Heb. “yishuv”] can exist in the heart of Palestine.
Professors, We Need You! By Nicholas Kristof.
Professors, We Need You! By Nicholas Kristof. New York Times, February 15, 2014.
Look Who Nick Kristof’s Saving Now. By Corey Robin. CoreyRobin.com, February 16, 2014.
Kristof:
SOME of the smartest thinkers on problems at home and around the world are university professors, but most of them just don’t matter in today’s great debates.
The
most stinging dismissal of a point is to say: “That’s academic.” In other words,
to be a scholar is, often, to be irrelevant.
One
reason is the anti-intellectualism in American life, the kind that led Rick Santorum to scold President Obama as “a snob” for wanting more kids to go to
college, or that led congressional Republicans to denounce spending on social science research. Yet it’s not just that America has marginalized some of its
sharpest minds. They have also marginalized themselves.
“All
the disciplines have become more and more specialized and more and more
quantitative, making them less and less accessible to the general public,”
notes Anne-Marie Slaughter, a former dean of the Woodrow Wilson School at
Princeton and now the president of the New America Foundation.
There
are plenty of exceptions, of course, including in economics, history and some
sciences, in professional schools like law and business, and, above all, in
schools of public policy; for that matter, we have a law professor in the White
House. But, over all, there are, I think, fewer public intellectuals on American
university campuses today than a generation ago.
A basic
challenge is that Ph.D. programs have fostered a culture that glorifies arcane
unintelligibility while disdaining impact and audience. This culture of
exclusivity is then transmitted to the next generation through the
publish-or-perish tenure process. Rebels are too often crushed or driven away.
“Many
academics frown on public pontificating as a frivolous distraction from real
research,” said Will McCants, a Middle East specialist at the Brookings
Institution. “This attitude affects tenure decisions. If the sine qua non for
academic success is peer-reviewed publications, then academics who ‘waste their
time’ writing for the masses will be penalized.”
The
latest attempt by academia to wall itself off from the world came when the
executive council of the prestigious International Studies Association proposed
that its publication editors be barred from having personal blogs. The
association might as well scream: We want our scholars to be less influential!
A
related problem is that academics seeking tenure must encode their insights
into turgid prose. As a double protection against public consumption, this
gobbledygook is then sometimes hidden in obscure journals — or published by
university presses whose reputations for soporifics keep readers at a distance.
Jill Lepore, a Harvard historian who writes for The New Yorker and is an exception
to everything said here, noted the result: “a great, heaping mountain of
exquisite knowledge surrounded by a vast moat of dreadful prose.”
As
experiments, scholars have periodically submitted meaningless gibberish to
scholarly journals — only to have the nonsense respectfully published.
My
onetime love, political science, is a particular offender and seems to be
trying, in terms of practical impact, to commit suicide.
“Political
science Ph.D.’s often aren’t prepared to do real-world analysis,” says Ian Bremmer, a Stanford political science Ph.D. who runs the Eurasia Group, a
consulting firm. In the late 1930s and early 1940s, one-fifth of articles in
The American Political Science Review focused on policy prescriptions; at last
count, the share was down to 0.3 percent.
Universities
have retreated from area studies, so we have specialists in international theory
who know little that is practical about the world. After the Arab Spring, a study by the Stimson Center looked back at whether various sectors had foreseen
the possibility of upheavals. It found that scholars were among the most
oblivious — partly because they relied upon quantitative models or theoretical
constructs that had been useless in predicting unrest.
Many
academic disciplines also reduce their influence by neglecting political
diversity. Sociology, for example, should be central to so many national
issues, but it is so dominated by the left that it is instinctively dismissed
by the right.
In
contrast, economics is a rare academic field with a significant Republican
presence, and that helps tether economic debates to real-world debates. That
may be one reason, along with empiricism and rigor, why economists (including
my colleague in columny, Paul Krugman) shape debates on issues from health care
to education.
Professors
today have a growing number of tools available to educate the public, from
online courses to blogs to social media. Yet academics have been slow to cast
pearls through Twitter and Facebook. Likewise, it was TED Talks by nonscholars
that made lectures fun to watch (but I owe a shout-out to the Teaching
Company’s lectures, which have enlivened our family’s car rides).
I write
this in sorrow, for I considered an academic career and deeply admire the
wisdom found on university campuses. So, professors, don’t cloister yourselves
like medieval monks — we need you!
Look Who Nick Kristof’s Saving Now. By Corey Robin. CoreyRobin.com, February 16, 2014.
Kristof:
SOME of the smartest thinkers on problems at home and around the world are university professors, but most of them just don’t matter in today’s great debates.
Saturday, February 15, 2014
Why Writers Are the Worst Procrastinators. By Megan McArdle.
Why Writers Are the Worst Procrastinators. By Megan McArdle. The Atlantic, February 12, 2014.
Of Zionism and Camels. By Tom Wilson.
Of Zionism and Camels. By Tom Wilson. Commentary, February 14, 2014.
The Old Testament’s made-up camels are a problem for Zionism. By Andrew Brown. The Guardian, February 13, 2014.
Domesticated Camels Came to Israel in 930 BC, Centuries Later Than Bible Says. By Mairav Zonszein. National Geographic, February 10, 2014.
Camels Had No Business in Genesis. By John Noble Wilford. New York Times, February 10, 2014.
The Introduction of Domestic Camels to the Southern Levant: Evidence from the Aravah Valley. By Lidar Sapir-Hen and Erez Ben-Yosef. Tel Aviv, Vol. 40, No. 2 (November 2013).
Wilson:
The idea that anyone might use research about camels to attempt to invalidate Zionism may seem rather far-fetched. But at the avowedly anti-Israel Guardian newspaper, anything is worth a try. The author of the piece in question, Andrew Brown, has set upon a recent story featured by the New York Times and National Geographic who themselves have seized upon research from two scholars at Tel Aviv University which has suggested that domesticated camels may not have existed in the Levant in the time of Genesis.
Brown
parades this as proof positive that the camels mentioned in genesis must be a
fiction. From there Brown’s impeccable line of reasoning just runs and runs.
The camels in Genesis are made up, and if they are made up then the Bible is
made up, and if the Bible is made up then everything else in the Bible is made
up, which means promises to Abraham and his descendants about the inheritance
of the land were made up, which means the foundations of Zionism are made up,
and so, whatever one might say about the modern State of Israel, its
foundations, which Brown dismisses as emotional, are made up and invalid. You
follow?
While
it may not be wise to engage such people on such matters as to whether the
history of domesticated camels does or does not invalidate the Bible, there are
a couple of brief points to be made here. For one thing, the research cited in
all of this only appears to concern specific copper smelting sites in the
Negev’s Aravah Valley. What the study seems to show is the date at which
domesticated camels were probably introduced to work at that specific site,
which by all accounts is some several centuries after the time at which the
Patriarchs and their camels are believed to have been moving through the
surrounding region.
Now,
perhaps the Methodist Sunday school I attended was deficient, but I don’t seem
to recall anything about the Patriarchs participating in the copper smelting
industry. Indeed, it seems like somewhat of a stretch altogether to say that
because there were no camels working at a specific copper producing site prior
to a specific date, therefore no one kept domesticated camels in the entire
region before that date either.
Yet, if
that extrapolation is too much, what to make of Andrew Brown’s still more
far-fetched contention that the probable absence of camels at an ancient copper
smelting site in the Aravah Valley somehow invalidates the modern day movement
to secure a Jewish national home? Brown writes with relish about how the story
in the Times will no doubt upset
“Christian fundamentalists,” a hint about what is most likely really at work
here. For, with the Guardian serving
as Britain’s preeminent left-wing daily, Brown is sure to stress in his piece
that there is far “less evidence for the historical truth of the Old Testament”
than there is for the Koran.
Europeans
in general, and the left there in particular, have become fiercely hostile to
Judeo-Christianity and its values. Over recent decades many of them have come
to perceive Zionism as an active effort to validate and reaffirm the very same
Bible that so many of them have spent so long arguing against and attempting to
drive out of their societies. They believe that by establishing a state in the
land of Israel, Jews are seeking first and foremost to fulfill a biblical
commandment. I recall once attending a tumultuous public lecture by Benny
Morris at the London School of Economics. Morris was trying to explain to his
audience that Zionism had begun as a secular movement. The audience was having
none of it and during the Q&A the arguing went back and forth on this point
that they had become so stuck on. They would not be dissuaded from their
conviction that Zionism and Israel is a religious and theocratic project, one
essentially comparable with jihadism.
The way
in which this aggressive dislike of biblical religion can so easily translate
into a seemingly untamable hatred of Jews more generally, including Jews today,
was evidenced by an outburst by the liberal television personality and would-be
intellectual Stephen Fry, when during an interview he exclaimed, “The ten
commandments are the hysterical believings of a group of desert tribes. Those
desert tribes have stored up more misery for mankind than any other group of
people in the history of the planet, and they’re doing it to this day.” Whether
or not these desert tribes had camels by this point, disappointingly Fry doesn’t
say.
If
camels have the slightest chance of helping to invalidate the twin evils of
Zionism and the Bible then the Guardian
and its readers are only too pleased hear all about it. Brown asserts
stridently, “The history recounted in the Bible is a huge part of the mythology
of modern Zionism. The idea of a promised land is based on narratives that
assert with complete confidence stories that never actually happened.” Of
course, the Jewish religion and collective memory has played no small part in
the development of Zionist thought, but as one reader wrote in the comments
section of a blog monitoring the Guardian,
“Modern Zionism has nothing to do with the camels of Abraham but everything to
do with European anti-Semitism so perfectly represented by Andrew Brown and the
Guardian.”
The Old Testament’s made-up camels are a problem for Zionism. By Andrew Brown. The Guardian, February 13, 2014.
Domesticated Camels Came to Israel in 930 BC, Centuries Later Than Bible Says. By Mairav Zonszein. National Geographic, February 10, 2014.
Camels Had No Business in Genesis. By John Noble Wilford. New York Times, February 10, 2014.
The Introduction of Domestic Camels to the Southern Levant: Evidence from the Aravah Valley. By Lidar Sapir-Hen and Erez Ben-Yosef. Tel Aviv, Vol. 40, No. 2 (November 2013).
Wilson:
The idea that anyone might use research about camels to attempt to invalidate Zionism may seem rather far-fetched. But at the avowedly anti-Israel Guardian newspaper, anything is worth a try. The author of the piece in question, Andrew Brown, has set upon a recent story featured by the New York Times and National Geographic who themselves have seized upon research from two scholars at Tel Aviv University which has suggested that domesticated camels may not have existed in the Levant in the time of Genesis.
The End of American Exceptionalism. By Roger Berkowitz.
The End of American Exceptionalism. By Roger Berkowitz. The American Interest, February 15, 2014.
The End of American Exceptionalism. By Peter Beinart. NJBR, February 3, 2014. With related article.
The End of American Exceptionalism. By Peter Beinart. NJBR, February 3, 2014. With related article.
My Valentine to American Jewish Men. By Suzanne Levy.
My valentine to American Jewish men. By Suzanne Levy. The Times of Israel, February 13, 2014.
Levy:
LOS ANGELES (JTA) — On Valentine’s Day, I’d like to sing the praises of American Jewish men. I’m aware it’s a rather large group, but that’s the point: The United States is a sea of plenty for Jewish men. Whereas in Britain, where I grew up, there are only about 300,000 Jews. If you remove married men, women and children, you’re left with enough eligible Jewish bachelors to inhabit a synagogue or two.
There
are, however, millions of men in the U.K. who look like Benedict Cumberbatch or
Hugh Grant. Lovely chaps, all of them, but none embodied the stocky, dark,
curly-haired Jewish types I longed for when I was growing up in the 1970s.
Think Paul Michael Glaser, the guy who played Starsky. Or Tony Curtis. There
were some in my Hebrew school class in London, but few had that sass, that
chutzpah I was after. They were aiming to be languid and vaguely ironic, like
Jeremy Irons.
My
first encounter with a real-life Jewish American boy came when I was 16. I was
on a summer Israel tour, that rite of passage, and one night, on the shores of
the Kinneret, I met Lance from Michigan. I’d never met a Lance before. Only
Jeremys, Howards and Simons. It was thrilling. He was stocky, with a “Jewish
nose” and thick hair. We flirted, I fell in love, he left on an Egged bus.
I was
left with the confirmation that yes, such beings do exist in real life, and a
deep knowledge that one day we would meet again and marry. (That knowledge
proved to be illusory, but if anyone knows a Lance from Michigan who went to
Israel in 1979, please pass on this story. Maybe our children could marry.)
I’m
sure my attraction to American Jewish men was a factor 10 years later when, at
26, I decided to move to New York. I’d like to say it was because I had taken a
job at the BBC’s New York bureau. But in fact it was just that I knew I’d be
living in a world inhabited by Jewish guys. And so I was. I would walk down the
street on the Upper West Side (with a particular viewing point outside Zabar’s)
and clutch myself in excitement at the Jewish Adonises around me with their
deep, soulful eyes on their expressive faces. Could you be my prince? How about
you?
My
dating pool suddenly expanded. Jewish men were everywhere: waiters, dentists,
squash instructors. It constantly amazed me. I would meet a guy at a bar or a
party and their last name would be Rosenbaum or Cohen. Definitely not
Clemington-Smythe. My bubbe would have been proud. I was ecstatic.
It’s
not like I hadn’t dated — or even been in love with — non-Jewish men in
England. But I just found there was a level of comfort and warmth —
heimischeness, if you will — with my Jewish tribesmen. And the American Jews
also had an exotic assertiveness that thrilled me. They have a confidence in
their manliness, in their heritage. They’re descended from the Jews who made it
through harsh winters and pogroms in the shtetls. They’re risk takers and life
embracers.
While
it’s true that British Jewish men are descended from the same stock, more than
a century of keeping your head down, fitting in and hoping no one will notice
you’re avoiding the ham sandwiches at work doesn’t exactly make you want to
stand out in a crowd. British society is wonderfully tolerant of
multiculturalism — as long as you don’t make a fuss.
Jewish
American men don’t try to assimilate. They don’t seem to rein in their
mannerisms. They’re out and proud (at least in New York or Los Angeles). And
they have broad shoulders and are, as my mother would say, “shtarkers” —
they’re strong.
Of
course, there’s the stereotype that Jewish men are nebbishy Woody Allen types —
and some are! But what these men may lack in brawn, they make up for with their
scintillating smarts. The few Jewish intellectuals in the U.K. stand out
because of their rarity (Alain de Botton, Harold Pinter), while here you can
find bespectacled Jewish men passionately expressing their views or fluently
spinning bewitching tales everywhere in the media. Talk wonkery to me, Ezra
Klein! Give me a driveway moment, Ira Glass! Paul Krugman, fill me with your
finance talk! (Paul doesn’t wear glasses, but you get my point.)
One day
seven years ago, after many years of happily wading through New York’s large
Jewish dating pool, I was out for drinks with coworkers when one of the company’s
vice presidents admitted to the crowd that he’d once considered becoming a
rabbi.
I
almost fell off my chair. This would have never happened in London. His name
was Steve Holtzman. It was love at last name. The next day I rushed to talk to
him. We compared notes on teenage years involved with Orthodox youth groups,
and we’ve been together ever since.
Today,
Steve shrugs off his Jewishness, but for me it continues to be part of the
appeal. His maternal grandfather escaped the czar’s army by walking across
Europe when he was 12. His father’s family comes from Pinsk. (I just like
saying the word Pinsk). He’s smart, funny and cute. He has a big embrace. And a
big heart.
So on
this day of pagan/Christian celebration of love, I’d like to take this moment
to make a toast to him — and to all American Jewish men. May you all continue
to thrill this nice Jewish girl from London. And all Jewish girls, from
wherever they are, throughout the decades to come.
What Levy loves about Jewish American men is their Jacksonianism. Whether as intellectuals or entrepreneurs, they are bold, proud, passionate, and assertive, both as Jews and as Americans.
Levy:
LOS ANGELES (JTA) — On Valentine’s Day, I’d like to sing the praises of American Jewish men. I’m aware it’s a rather large group, but that’s the point: The United States is a sea of plenty for Jewish men. Whereas in Britain, where I grew up, there are only about 300,000 Jews. If you remove married men, women and children, you’re left with enough eligible Jewish bachelors to inhabit a synagogue or two.
What Levy loves about Jewish American men is their Jacksonianism. Whether as intellectuals or entrepreneurs, they are bold, proud, passionate, and assertive, both as Jews and as Americans.
A Little Valentine’s Day Straight Talk. By Susan Patton.
A Little Valentine’s Day Straight Talk. By Susan Patton. Wall Street Journal, February 13, 2014.
Advice for the Young Women of Princeton: Find a Husband. By Susan A. Patton. NJBR, April 1, 2013. With related articles, video, and audio.
Susan Patton, “Princeton Mom,” Is Back: An Academic Takedown of Her Many Misguided Arguments. By Nina Bahadur. The Huffington Post, February 14, 2014.
Dear Susan Patton, Single Women Don’t Need Your “Straight Talk.” By Emma Gray. The Huffington Post, February 14, 2014.
The End of “Marriageability?” By Robert VerBruggen. Real Clear Policy, February 14, 2014.
The 11 best quotes from Susan Patton’s new book. By Urvija Banerji and Anna Mazarakis. The Prox, March 3, 2014.
The 10 Worst Pieces of Advice From Susan Patton’s “Marry Smart.” By Claire Fallon. The Huffington Post, March 6, 2014.
14 Questions for Princeton Mom Susan Patton. By Emily Levy. Vocativ, March 7, 2014.
Susan Patton interview. By Rabbi Joseph Potasnik (her cousin) and Deacon Kevin McCormack. Audio. Religion on the Line. 77 WABC Radio, March 9, 2014. Interview starts at 77:40 in the podcast.
Elites Close Ranks Around Ivy League Intermarriage. By Walter Russell Mead. NJBR, April 7, 2013. With related articles.
Katty Kay: Marriage Is “Old Fashioned” If You Want to Have Kids. NJBR, April 18, 2013. With video.
Sex on Campus: She Can Play That Game, Too. By Kate Taylor. NJBR, July 17, 2013. With related articles.
Patton:
Another Valentine's Day. Another night spent ordering in sushi for one and mooning over “Downton Abbey” reruns. Smarten up, ladies.
Despite
all of the focus on professional advancement, for most of you the cornerstone
of your future happiness will be the man you marry. But chances are that you
haven’t been investing nearly as much energy in planning for your personal
happiness as you are planning for your next promotion at work. What are you
waiting for? You’re not getting any younger, but the competition for the men
you’d be interested in marrying most definitely is.
Think
about it: If you spend the first 10 years out of college focused entirely on
building your career, when you finally get around to looking for a husband you’ll
be in your 30s, competing with women in their 20s. That's not a competition in
which you’re likely to fare well. If you want to have children, your biological
clock will be ticking loud enough to ward off any potential suitors. Don't let
it get to that point.
You
should be spending far more time planning for your husband than for your
career—and you should start doing so much sooner than you think. This is especially
the case if you are a woman with exceptionally good academic credentials,
aiming for corporate stardom.
An
extraordinary education is the greatest gift you can give yourself. But if you
are a young woman who has had that blessing, the task of finding a life partner
who shares your intellectual curiosity and potential for success is difficult.
Those men who are as well-educated as you are often interested in younger, less
challenging women.
Could
you marry a man who isn’t your intellectual or professional equal? Sure. But
the likelihood is that it will be frustrating to be with someone who just can’t
keep up with you or your friends. When the conversation turns to Jean Cocteau
or Henrik Ibsen, the Bayeux Tapestry or Noam Chomsky, you won’t find that
glazed look that comes over his face at all appealing. And if you start to earn
more than he does? Forget about it. Very few men have egos that can endure what
they will see as a form of emasculation.
So what’s
a smart girl to do? Start looking early and stop wasting time dating men who
aren’t good for you: bad boys, crazy guys and married men.
College
is the best place to look for your mate. It is an environment teeming with
like-minded, age-appropriate single men with whom you already share many
things. You will never again have this concentration of exceptional men to
choose from.
When
you find a good man, take it slow. Casual sex is irresistible to men, but the
smart move is not to give it away. If you offer intimacy without commitment,
the incentive to commit is eliminated. The grandmotherly message of yesterday
is still true today: Men won’t buy the cow if the milk is free.
Can you
meet brilliant, marriageable men after college? Yes, but just not that many of
them. Once you’re living off campus and in the real world, you’ll be stunned by
how smart the men are not. You’ll no doubt meet some eligible guys in your
workplace, but it’s hazardous to get romantically involved with co-workers.
You may
not be ready for marriage in your early 20s (or maybe you are), but keep in
touch with the men that you meet in college, especially the super smart ones.
They’ll probably do very well for themselves, and their desirability will only
increase after graduation.
Not all
women want marriage or motherhood, but if you do, you have to start listening
to your gut and avoid falling for the P.C. feminist line that has misled so
many young women for years. There is nothing incongruous about educated,
ambitious women wanting to be wives and mothers. Don’t let anyone tell you that
these traditional roles are retrograde; they are perfectly natural and even
wonderful. And if you fail to identify “the one” while you’re in college, don’t
worry—there’s always graduate school.
Gray:
It’s Valentine's Day. I’m single, I’m a college graduate, I’m 26 and I’ve spent the last four years tirelessly working to advance my career as an editor. According to “Princeton Mom,” Susan Patton, tonight I’ll probably be crying into my Seamless-ordered sushi and tomorrow I need to buck up and find a damn husband.
On
behalf of the vast majority of single women that I know – who are, as Patton so
quaintly put it, “not getting any younger” – I’d like to tell her: “Thanks, but
no thanks.” Your so-called “straight talk” isn’t doing those in your target
demographic any favors.
Of
course, this is not the first time the 1977 Princeton grad has argued that “career
women” are wasting their youth on caring about their jobs, that the only good
men out there can exclusively be found in your undergraduate university
classes, and that being deeply passionate about (and loving) your work is
mutually exclusive with being deeply passionate about finding love and a life
partner. She's already made this argument twice, but I suppose that a holiday
dedicated to Hallmark cards, ostentatious shows of affection and overpriced
prix-fixe dinners is as good a time as any for her to push out her drivel of a
message once again – and shill for her upcoming book.
To the
Susan Pattons of the world, I want to make the following very clear about
single women in their 20s and 30s:
1. Most of us are looking for love.
As many
single women can attest, there is a vast gulf between being open to love and
going on dates, and actually finding a person who you mesh with, who you care
about and who cares about you. The women I know put aside time out of their
busy weeks to date and to push themselves into new situations where they might
meet potential love interests. We sign up for Tinder and Hinge and OKCupid and
JDate, half out of boredom, but, ultimately, with an air of hopefulness. With each
swipe or like or match we wonder whether this will be the one that works – and
often, it’s not. (The same can be said for all of the wonderful and
not-so-wonderful potential partners we met during our college years. I don’t
believe that the men I met when I was 20 are any more “marriage material” than
the men I meet now.)
We
enter relationships and end said relationships when they are not right, we
endure heartbreaks and bad dates, and also have great sex and great stories.
Some of us find someone we think we'd like to be with for a very long time
during these years – and some of us don’t. Both are fine outcomes, and most
people do not end up in one camp or the other because they did or did not try
hard enough to “plan for a husband.”
2. We also are dedicating considerable time
and energy to our careers – but it’s not a waste of time.
Not
only do most of the single women I know love their jobs, find fulfillment in
said jobs and cannot imagine leading lives that did not include a career, but
also, for most of us, work is and will always be a necessity for survival. Even
recognizing women who would prefer not to work after marriage, most of us will
not marry a partner who can afford to take on the full financial burden of his
family. As of May 2013, 4 in 10 American households with young children had
female breadwinners. And single, childless women in urban centers are on their
way to out-earning their male counterparts. But none of this means that these
women will be forced to opt out of marriage because they’ve spent time
advancing their careers and are making decent salaries. In fact,
highly-educated, successful women are just as likely to get married (if not
more so) than other women, they just tend to do it a few years later.
3. Having – and enjoying -- sex does not
prevent us from finding true connection.
4. We don’t devalue marriage or motherhood.
And a lot of us still want those things.
Let’s
be clear: being a feminist does not, as Patton implies, mean believing that
there is something “incongruous about educated, ambitious women wanting to be
wives and mothers.” Most of the single – and married – women I am close with
identify as feminists and consider themselves to be thoroughly modern and
empowered. None of them think that being a wife or a mother is a bad thing,
some don’t want to be either wives or mothers, and many are single and still
want both. Not spending every waking moment wishing for an MRS. degree or
looking at every new man who enters our lives as a potential sperm donor, doesn’t
preclude a desire to find a life partner or have a baby.
But the
most important thing you need to understand, Susan Patton, is that we single
women choose not to define our ultimate worth by our relationship status. Yes,
we are single. Yes, we are spending Valentine’s Day without a romantic partner
(probably not crying into our takeout sushi). We may or may not feel satisfied
with those things. But we are also so, so much more.
Advice for the Young Women of Princeton: Find a Husband. By Susan A. Patton. NJBR, April 1, 2013. With related articles, video, and audio.
Susan Patton, “Princeton Mom,” Is Back: An Academic Takedown of Her Many Misguided Arguments. By Nina Bahadur. The Huffington Post, February 14, 2014.
Dear Susan Patton, Single Women Don’t Need Your “Straight Talk.” By Emma Gray. The Huffington Post, February 14, 2014.
The End of “Marriageability?” By Robert VerBruggen. Real Clear Policy, February 14, 2014.
The 11 best quotes from Susan Patton’s new book. By Urvija Banerji and Anna Mazarakis. The Prox, March 3, 2014.
The 10 Worst Pieces of Advice From Susan Patton’s “Marry Smart.” By Claire Fallon. The Huffington Post, March 6, 2014.
14 Questions for Princeton Mom Susan Patton. By Emily Levy. Vocativ, March 7, 2014.
Susan Patton interview. By Rabbi Joseph Potasnik (her cousin) and Deacon Kevin McCormack. Audio. Religion on the Line. 77 WABC Radio, March 9, 2014. Interview starts at 77:40 in the podcast.
Elites Close Ranks Around Ivy League Intermarriage. By Walter Russell Mead. NJBR, April 7, 2013. With related articles.
Katty Kay: Marriage Is “Old Fashioned” If You Want to Have Kids. NJBR, April 18, 2013. With video.
Sex on Campus: She Can Play That Game, Too. By Kate Taylor. NJBR, July 17, 2013. With related articles.
Patton:
Another Valentine's Day. Another night spent ordering in sushi for one and mooning over “Downton Abbey” reruns. Smarten up, ladies.
Gray:
It’s Valentine's Day. I’m single, I’m a college graduate, I’m 26 and I’ve spent the last four years tirelessly working to advance my career as an editor. According to “Princeton Mom,” Susan Patton, tonight I’ll probably be crying into my Seamless-ordered sushi and tomorrow I need to buck up and find a damn husband.
“Men
won’t buy the cow if the milk is free,” Patton writes, sounding more out of
touch than I thought was humanly possible. I know women who have slept with men
right away thinking it would be completely casual, and ended up marrying those
men years down the road. I know women who did everything “right” and by “the
rules” with a potential partner and ended up dumped. I have heard (and
experienced) nearly every iteration in between. Sex is complicated and means
something different to every person. It absolutely can make or break a
relationship, but not because you messed up and “gave it away”too early. And
honestly, any man who would lose interest in me right after we slept together,
is probably not a man I’d want to commit myself to legally for the rest of my
life, anyway. Plus, 95 percent of American couples who make the trip down the
aisle have slept together far before their wedding night.
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