Saturday, February 15, 2014
Why Writers Are the Worst Procrastinators. By Megan McArdle.
Why Writers Are the Worst Procrastinators. By Megan McArdle. The Atlantic, February 12, 2014.
Of Zionism and Camels. By Tom Wilson.
Of Zionism and Camels. By Tom Wilson. Commentary, February 14, 2014.
The Old Testament’s made-up camels are a problem for Zionism. By Andrew Brown. The Guardian, February 13, 2014.
Domesticated Camels Came to Israel in 930 BC, Centuries Later Than Bible Says. By Mairav Zonszein. National Geographic, February 10, 2014.
Camels Had No Business in Genesis. By John Noble Wilford. New York Times, February 10, 2014.
The Introduction of Domestic Camels to the Southern Levant: Evidence from the Aravah Valley. By Lidar Sapir-Hen and Erez Ben-Yosef. Tel Aviv, Vol. 40, No. 2 (November 2013).
Wilson:
The idea that anyone might use research about camels to attempt to invalidate Zionism may seem rather far-fetched. But at the avowedly anti-Israel Guardian newspaper, anything is worth a try. The author of the piece in question, Andrew Brown, has set upon a recent story featured by the New York Times and National Geographic who themselves have seized upon research from two scholars at Tel Aviv University which has suggested that domesticated camels may not have existed in the Levant in the time of Genesis.
Brown
parades this as proof positive that the camels mentioned in genesis must be a
fiction. From there Brown’s impeccable line of reasoning just runs and runs.
The camels in Genesis are made up, and if they are made up then the Bible is
made up, and if the Bible is made up then everything else in the Bible is made
up, which means promises to Abraham and his descendants about the inheritance
of the land were made up, which means the foundations of Zionism are made up,
and so, whatever one might say about the modern State of Israel, its
foundations, which Brown dismisses as emotional, are made up and invalid. You
follow?
While
it may not be wise to engage such people on such matters as to whether the
history of domesticated camels does or does not invalidate the Bible, there are
a couple of brief points to be made here. For one thing, the research cited in
all of this only appears to concern specific copper smelting sites in the
Negev’s Aravah Valley. What the study seems to show is the date at which
domesticated camels were probably introduced to work at that specific site,
which by all accounts is some several centuries after the time at which the
Patriarchs and their camels are believed to have been moving through the
surrounding region.
Now,
perhaps the Methodist Sunday school I attended was deficient, but I don’t seem
to recall anything about the Patriarchs participating in the copper smelting
industry. Indeed, it seems like somewhat of a stretch altogether to say that
because there were no camels working at a specific copper producing site prior
to a specific date, therefore no one kept domesticated camels in the entire
region before that date either.
Yet, if
that extrapolation is too much, what to make of Andrew Brown’s still more
far-fetched contention that the probable absence of camels at an ancient copper
smelting site in the Aravah Valley somehow invalidates the modern day movement
to secure a Jewish national home? Brown writes with relish about how the story
in the Times will no doubt upset
“Christian fundamentalists,” a hint about what is most likely really at work
here. For, with the Guardian serving
as Britain’s preeminent left-wing daily, Brown is sure to stress in his piece
that there is far “less evidence for the historical truth of the Old Testament”
than there is for the Koran.
Europeans
in general, and the left there in particular, have become fiercely hostile to
Judeo-Christianity and its values. Over recent decades many of them have come
to perceive Zionism as an active effort to validate and reaffirm the very same
Bible that so many of them have spent so long arguing against and attempting to
drive out of their societies. They believe that by establishing a state in the
land of Israel, Jews are seeking first and foremost to fulfill a biblical
commandment. I recall once attending a tumultuous public lecture by Benny
Morris at the London School of Economics. Morris was trying to explain to his
audience that Zionism had begun as a secular movement. The audience was having
none of it and during the Q&A the arguing went back and forth on this point
that they had become so stuck on. They would not be dissuaded from their
conviction that Zionism and Israel is a religious and theocratic project, one
essentially comparable with jihadism.
The way
in which this aggressive dislike of biblical religion can so easily translate
into a seemingly untamable hatred of Jews more generally, including Jews today,
was evidenced by an outburst by the liberal television personality and would-be
intellectual Stephen Fry, when during an interview he exclaimed, “The ten
commandments are the hysterical believings of a group of desert tribes. Those
desert tribes have stored up more misery for mankind than any other group of
people in the history of the planet, and they’re doing it to this day.” Whether
or not these desert tribes had camels by this point, disappointingly Fry doesn’t
say.
If
camels have the slightest chance of helping to invalidate the twin evils of
Zionism and the Bible then the Guardian
and its readers are only too pleased hear all about it. Brown asserts
stridently, “The history recounted in the Bible is a huge part of the mythology
of modern Zionism. The idea of a promised land is based on narratives that
assert with complete confidence stories that never actually happened.” Of
course, the Jewish religion and collective memory has played no small part in
the development of Zionist thought, but as one reader wrote in the comments
section of a blog monitoring the Guardian,
“Modern Zionism has nothing to do with the camels of Abraham but everything to
do with European anti-Semitism so perfectly represented by Andrew Brown and the
Guardian.”
The Old Testament’s made-up camels are a problem for Zionism. By Andrew Brown. The Guardian, February 13, 2014.
Domesticated Camels Came to Israel in 930 BC, Centuries Later Than Bible Says. By Mairav Zonszein. National Geographic, February 10, 2014.
Camels Had No Business in Genesis. By John Noble Wilford. New York Times, February 10, 2014.
The Introduction of Domestic Camels to the Southern Levant: Evidence from the Aravah Valley. By Lidar Sapir-Hen and Erez Ben-Yosef. Tel Aviv, Vol. 40, No. 2 (November 2013).
Wilson:
The idea that anyone might use research about camels to attempt to invalidate Zionism may seem rather far-fetched. But at the avowedly anti-Israel Guardian newspaper, anything is worth a try. The author of the piece in question, Andrew Brown, has set upon a recent story featured by the New York Times and National Geographic who themselves have seized upon research from two scholars at Tel Aviv University which has suggested that domesticated camels may not have existed in the Levant in the time of Genesis.
The End of American Exceptionalism. By Roger Berkowitz.
The End of American Exceptionalism. By Roger Berkowitz. The American Interest, February 15, 2014.
The End of American Exceptionalism. By Peter Beinart. NJBR, February 3, 2014. With related article.
The End of American Exceptionalism. By Peter Beinart. NJBR, February 3, 2014. With related article.
My Valentine to American Jewish Men. By Suzanne Levy.
My valentine to American Jewish men. By Suzanne Levy. The Times of Israel, February 13, 2014.
Levy:
LOS ANGELES (JTA) — On Valentine’s Day, I’d like to sing the praises of American Jewish men. I’m aware it’s a rather large group, but that’s the point: The United States is a sea of plenty for Jewish men. Whereas in Britain, where I grew up, there are only about 300,000 Jews. If you remove married men, women and children, you’re left with enough eligible Jewish bachelors to inhabit a synagogue or two.
There
are, however, millions of men in the U.K. who look like Benedict Cumberbatch or
Hugh Grant. Lovely chaps, all of them, but none embodied the stocky, dark,
curly-haired Jewish types I longed for when I was growing up in the 1970s.
Think Paul Michael Glaser, the guy who played Starsky. Or Tony Curtis. There
were some in my Hebrew school class in London, but few had that sass, that
chutzpah I was after. They were aiming to be languid and vaguely ironic, like
Jeremy Irons.
My
first encounter with a real-life Jewish American boy came when I was 16. I was
on a summer Israel tour, that rite of passage, and one night, on the shores of
the Kinneret, I met Lance from Michigan. I’d never met a Lance before. Only
Jeremys, Howards and Simons. It was thrilling. He was stocky, with a “Jewish
nose” and thick hair. We flirted, I fell in love, he left on an Egged bus.
I was
left with the confirmation that yes, such beings do exist in real life, and a
deep knowledge that one day we would meet again and marry. (That knowledge
proved to be illusory, but if anyone knows a Lance from Michigan who went to
Israel in 1979, please pass on this story. Maybe our children could marry.)
I’m
sure my attraction to American Jewish men was a factor 10 years later when, at
26, I decided to move to New York. I’d like to say it was because I had taken a
job at the BBC’s New York bureau. But in fact it was just that I knew I’d be
living in a world inhabited by Jewish guys. And so I was. I would walk down the
street on the Upper West Side (with a particular viewing point outside Zabar’s)
and clutch myself in excitement at the Jewish Adonises around me with their
deep, soulful eyes on their expressive faces. Could you be my prince? How about
you?
My
dating pool suddenly expanded. Jewish men were everywhere: waiters, dentists,
squash instructors. It constantly amazed me. I would meet a guy at a bar or a
party and their last name would be Rosenbaum or Cohen. Definitely not
Clemington-Smythe. My bubbe would have been proud. I was ecstatic.
It’s
not like I hadn’t dated — or even been in love with — non-Jewish men in
England. But I just found there was a level of comfort and warmth —
heimischeness, if you will — with my Jewish tribesmen. And the American Jews
also had an exotic assertiveness that thrilled me. They have a confidence in
their manliness, in their heritage. They’re descended from the Jews who made it
through harsh winters and pogroms in the shtetls. They’re risk takers and life
embracers.
While
it’s true that British Jewish men are descended from the same stock, more than
a century of keeping your head down, fitting in and hoping no one will notice
you’re avoiding the ham sandwiches at work doesn’t exactly make you want to
stand out in a crowd. British society is wonderfully tolerant of
multiculturalism — as long as you don’t make a fuss.
Jewish
American men don’t try to assimilate. They don’t seem to rein in their
mannerisms. They’re out and proud (at least in New York or Los Angeles). And
they have broad shoulders and are, as my mother would say, “shtarkers” —
they’re strong.
Of
course, there’s the stereotype that Jewish men are nebbishy Woody Allen types —
and some are! But what these men may lack in brawn, they make up for with their
scintillating smarts. The few Jewish intellectuals in the U.K. stand out
because of their rarity (Alain de Botton, Harold Pinter), while here you can
find bespectacled Jewish men passionately expressing their views or fluently
spinning bewitching tales everywhere in the media. Talk wonkery to me, Ezra
Klein! Give me a driveway moment, Ira Glass! Paul Krugman, fill me with your
finance talk! (Paul doesn’t wear glasses, but you get my point.)
One day
seven years ago, after many years of happily wading through New York’s large
Jewish dating pool, I was out for drinks with coworkers when one of the company’s
vice presidents admitted to the crowd that he’d once considered becoming a
rabbi.
I
almost fell off my chair. This would have never happened in London. His name
was Steve Holtzman. It was love at last name. The next day I rushed to talk to
him. We compared notes on teenage years involved with Orthodox youth groups,
and we’ve been together ever since.
Today,
Steve shrugs off his Jewishness, but for me it continues to be part of the
appeal. His maternal grandfather escaped the czar’s army by walking across
Europe when he was 12. His father’s family comes from Pinsk. (I just like
saying the word Pinsk). He’s smart, funny and cute. He has a big embrace. And a
big heart.
So on
this day of pagan/Christian celebration of love, I’d like to take this moment
to make a toast to him — and to all American Jewish men. May you all continue
to thrill this nice Jewish girl from London. And all Jewish girls, from
wherever they are, throughout the decades to come.
What Levy loves about Jewish American men is their Jacksonianism. Whether as intellectuals or entrepreneurs, they are bold, proud, passionate, and assertive, both as Jews and as Americans.
Levy:
LOS ANGELES (JTA) — On Valentine’s Day, I’d like to sing the praises of American Jewish men. I’m aware it’s a rather large group, but that’s the point: The United States is a sea of plenty for Jewish men. Whereas in Britain, where I grew up, there are only about 300,000 Jews. If you remove married men, women and children, you’re left with enough eligible Jewish bachelors to inhabit a synagogue or two.
What Levy loves about Jewish American men is their Jacksonianism. Whether as intellectuals or entrepreneurs, they are bold, proud, passionate, and assertive, both as Jews and as Americans.
A Little Valentine’s Day Straight Talk. By Susan Patton.
A Little Valentine’s Day Straight Talk. By Susan Patton. Wall Street Journal, February 13, 2014.
Advice for the Young Women of Princeton: Find a Husband. By Susan A. Patton. NJBR, April 1, 2013. With related articles, video, and audio.
Susan Patton, “Princeton Mom,” Is Back: An Academic Takedown of Her Many Misguided Arguments. By Nina Bahadur. The Huffington Post, February 14, 2014.
Dear Susan Patton, Single Women Don’t Need Your “Straight Talk.” By Emma Gray. The Huffington Post, February 14, 2014.
The End of “Marriageability?” By Robert VerBruggen. Real Clear Policy, February 14, 2014.
The 11 best quotes from Susan Patton’s new book. By Urvija Banerji and Anna Mazarakis. The Prox, March 3, 2014.
The 10 Worst Pieces of Advice From Susan Patton’s “Marry Smart.” By Claire Fallon. The Huffington Post, March 6, 2014.
14 Questions for Princeton Mom Susan Patton. By Emily Levy. Vocativ, March 7, 2014.
Susan Patton interview. By Rabbi Joseph Potasnik (her cousin) and Deacon Kevin McCormack. Audio. Religion on the Line. 77 WABC Radio, March 9, 2014. Interview starts at 77:40 in the podcast.
Elites Close Ranks Around Ivy League Intermarriage. By Walter Russell Mead. NJBR, April 7, 2013. With related articles.
Katty Kay: Marriage Is “Old Fashioned” If You Want to Have Kids. NJBR, April 18, 2013. With video.
Sex on Campus: She Can Play That Game, Too. By Kate Taylor. NJBR, July 17, 2013. With related articles.
Patton:
Another Valentine's Day. Another night spent ordering in sushi for one and mooning over “Downton Abbey” reruns. Smarten up, ladies.
Despite
all of the focus on professional advancement, for most of you the cornerstone
of your future happiness will be the man you marry. But chances are that you
haven’t been investing nearly as much energy in planning for your personal
happiness as you are planning for your next promotion at work. What are you
waiting for? You’re not getting any younger, but the competition for the men
you’d be interested in marrying most definitely is.
Think
about it: If you spend the first 10 years out of college focused entirely on
building your career, when you finally get around to looking for a husband you’ll
be in your 30s, competing with women in their 20s. That's not a competition in
which you’re likely to fare well. If you want to have children, your biological
clock will be ticking loud enough to ward off any potential suitors. Don't let
it get to that point.
You
should be spending far more time planning for your husband than for your
career—and you should start doing so much sooner than you think. This is especially
the case if you are a woman with exceptionally good academic credentials,
aiming for corporate stardom.
An
extraordinary education is the greatest gift you can give yourself. But if you
are a young woman who has had that blessing, the task of finding a life partner
who shares your intellectual curiosity and potential for success is difficult.
Those men who are as well-educated as you are often interested in younger, less
challenging women.
Could
you marry a man who isn’t your intellectual or professional equal? Sure. But
the likelihood is that it will be frustrating to be with someone who just can’t
keep up with you or your friends. When the conversation turns to Jean Cocteau
or Henrik Ibsen, the Bayeux Tapestry or Noam Chomsky, you won’t find that
glazed look that comes over his face at all appealing. And if you start to earn
more than he does? Forget about it. Very few men have egos that can endure what
they will see as a form of emasculation.
So what’s
a smart girl to do? Start looking early and stop wasting time dating men who
aren’t good for you: bad boys, crazy guys and married men.
College
is the best place to look for your mate. It is an environment teeming with
like-minded, age-appropriate single men with whom you already share many
things. You will never again have this concentration of exceptional men to
choose from.
When
you find a good man, take it slow. Casual sex is irresistible to men, but the
smart move is not to give it away. If you offer intimacy without commitment,
the incentive to commit is eliminated. The grandmotherly message of yesterday
is still true today: Men won’t buy the cow if the milk is free.
Can you
meet brilliant, marriageable men after college? Yes, but just not that many of
them. Once you’re living off campus and in the real world, you’ll be stunned by
how smart the men are not. You’ll no doubt meet some eligible guys in your
workplace, but it’s hazardous to get romantically involved with co-workers.
You may
not be ready for marriage in your early 20s (or maybe you are), but keep in
touch with the men that you meet in college, especially the super smart ones.
They’ll probably do very well for themselves, and their desirability will only
increase after graduation.
Not all
women want marriage or motherhood, but if you do, you have to start listening
to your gut and avoid falling for the P.C. feminist line that has misled so
many young women for years. There is nothing incongruous about educated,
ambitious women wanting to be wives and mothers. Don’t let anyone tell you that
these traditional roles are retrograde; they are perfectly natural and even
wonderful. And if you fail to identify “the one” while you’re in college, don’t
worry—there’s always graduate school.
Gray:
It’s Valentine's Day. I’m single, I’m a college graduate, I’m 26 and I’ve spent the last four years tirelessly working to advance my career as an editor. According to “Princeton Mom,” Susan Patton, tonight I’ll probably be crying into my Seamless-ordered sushi and tomorrow I need to buck up and find a damn husband.
On
behalf of the vast majority of single women that I know – who are, as Patton so
quaintly put it, “not getting any younger” – I’d like to tell her: “Thanks, but
no thanks.” Your so-called “straight talk” isn’t doing those in your target
demographic any favors.
Of
course, this is not the first time the 1977 Princeton grad has argued that “career
women” are wasting their youth on caring about their jobs, that the only good
men out there can exclusively be found in your undergraduate university
classes, and that being deeply passionate about (and loving) your work is
mutually exclusive with being deeply passionate about finding love and a life
partner. She's already made this argument twice, but I suppose that a holiday
dedicated to Hallmark cards, ostentatious shows of affection and overpriced
prix-fixe dinners is as good a time as any for her to push out her drivel of a
message once again – and shill for her upcoming book.
To the
Susan Pattons of the world, I want to make the following very clear about
single women in their 20s and 30s:
1. Most of us are looking for love.
As many
single women can attest, there is a vast gulf between being open to love and
going on dates, and actually finding a person who you mesh with, who you care
about and who cares about you. The women I know put aside time out of their
busy weeks to date and to push themselves into new situations where they might
meet potential love interests. We sign up for Tinder and Hinge and OKCupid and
JDate, half out of boredom, but, ultimately, with an air of hopefulness. With each
swipe or like or match we wonder whether this will be the one that works – and
often, it’s not. (The same can be said for all of the wonderful and
not-so-wonderful potential partners we met during our college years. I don’t
believe that the men I met when I was 20 are any more “marriage material” than
the men I meet now.)
We
enter relationships and end said relationships when they are not right, we
endure heartbreaks and bad dates, and also have great sex and great stories.
Some of us find someone we think we'd like to be with for a very long time
during these years – and some of us don’t. Both are fine outcomes, and most
people do not end up in one camp or the other because they did or did not try
hard enough to “plan for a husband.”
2. We also are dedicating considerable time
and energy to our careers – but it’s not a waste of time.
Not
only do most of the single women I know love their jobs, find fulfillment in
said jobs and cannot imagine leading lives that did not include a career, but
also, for most of us, work is and will always be a necessity for survival. Even
recognizing women who would prefer not to work after marriage, most of us will
not marry a partner who can afford to take on the full financial burden of his
family. As of May 2013, 4 in 10 American households with young children had
female breadwinners. And single, childless women in urban centers are on their
way to out-earning their male counterparts. But none of this means that these
women will be forced to opt out of marriage because they’ve spent time
advancing their careers and are making decent salaries. In fact,
highly-educated, successful women are just as likely to get married (if not
more so) than other women, they just tend to do it a few years later.
3. Having – and enjoying -- sex does not
prevent us from finding true connection.
4. We don’t devalue marriage or motherhood.
And a lot of us still want those things.
Let’s
be clear: being a feminist does not, as Patton implies, mean believing that
there is something “incongruous about educated, ambitious women wanting to be
wives and mothers.” Most of the single – and married – women I am close with
identify as feminists and consider themselves to be thoroughly modern and
empowered. None of them think that being a wife or a mother is a bad thing,
some don’t want to be either wives or mothers, and many are single and still
want both. Not spending every waking moment wishing for an MRS. degree or
looking at every new man who enters our lives as a potential sperm donor, doesn’t
preclude a desire to find a life partner or have a baby.
But the
most important thing you need to understand, Susan Patton, is that we single
women choose not to define our ultimate worth by our relationship status. Yes,
we are single. Yes, we are spending Valentine’s Day without a romantic partner
(probably not crying into our takeout sushi). We may or may not feel satisfied
with those things. But we are also so, so much more.
Advice for the Young Women of Princeton: Find a Husband. By Susan A. Patton. NJBR, April 1, 2013. With related articles, video, and audio.
Susan Patton, “Princeton Mom,” Is Back: An Academic Takedown of Her Many Misguided Arguments. By Nina Bahadur. The Huffington Post, February 14, 2014.
Dear Susan Patton, Single Women Don’t Need Your “Straight Talk.” By Emma Gray. The Huffington Post, February 14, 2014.
The End of “Marriageability?” By Robert VerBruggen. Real Clear Policy, February 14, 2014.
The 11 best quotes from Susan Patton’s new book. By Urvija Banerji and Anna Mazarakis. The Prox, March 3, 2014.
The 10 Worst Pieces of Advice From Susan Patton’s “Marry Smart.” By Claire Fallon. The Huffington Post, March 6, 2014.
14 Questions for Princeton Mom Susan Patton. By Emily Levy. Vocativ, March 7, 2014.
Susan Patton interview. By Rabbi Joseph Potasnik (her cousin) and Deacon Kevin McCormack. Audio. Religion on the Line. 77 WABC Radio, March 9, 2014. Interview starts at 77:40 in the podcast.
Elites Close Ranks Around Ivy League Intermarriage. By Walter Russell Mead. NJBR, April 7, 2013. With related articles.
Katty Kay: Marriage Is “Old Fashioned” If You Want to Have Kids. NJBR, April 18, 2013. With video.
Sex on Campus: She Can Play That Game, Too. By Kate Taylor. NJBR, July 17, 2013. With related articles.
Patton:
Another Valentine's Day. Another night spent ordering in sushi for one and mooning over “Downton Abbey” reruns. Smarten up, ladies.
Gray:
It’s Valentine's Day. I’m single, I’m a college graduate, I’m 26 and I’ve spent the last four years tirelessly working to advance my career as an editor. According to “Princeton Mom,” Susan Patton, tonight I’ll probably be crying into my Seamless-ordered sushi and tomorrow I need to buck up and find a damn husband.
“Men
won’t buy the cow if the milk is free,” Patton writes, sounding more out of
touch than I thought was humanly possible. I know women who have slept with men
right away thinking it would be completely casual, and ended up marrying those
men years down the road. I know women who did everything “right” and by “the
rules” with a potential partner and ended up dumped. I have heard (and
experienced) nearly every iteration in between. Sex is complicated and means
something different to every person. It absolutely can make or break a
relationship, but not because you messed up and “gave it away”too early. And
honestly, any man who would lose interest in me right after we slept together,
is probably not a man I’d want to commit myself to legally for the rest of my
life, anyway. Plus, 95 percent of American couples who make the trip down the
aisle have slept together far before their wedding night.
Roving Sea Peoples May Have Settled in Transjordan. By Ilan Ben Zion.
Left:
captive Philistine warriors from a wall relief at Medinet Habu, Egypt,
1185-1152 BC. Right: an artist’s conception of a Philistine warrior. Image
credit: John Shumate. |
Roving Sea Peoples may have settled in Transjordan, archaeologist says. By Ilan Ben Zion. The Times of Israel, February 13, 2014.
Cultural connections with Europe found in ancient Jordanian settlement. By Thomas Mellin. University of Gothenburg, January 16, 2014.
Tell Abu al-Kharaz: New Finds from “Sea People” Settlement. Sci-News.com, January 28, 2014.
Medinet Habu: Oxcarts, Ships, and Migration Theories. By Robert Drews. Journal of Near Eastern Studies, Vol. 59, No. 3 (July 2000).
Ben Zion:
New evidence unearthed at an ancient site in the Jordan Valley suggests that the Sea Peoples — a group which includes the ancient Israelites’ nemeses, the Philistines — settled as far inland as the Transjordan, a Swedish archaeologist argues. Not everyone in the archaeological community, however, is convinced by the finds.
A late
Bronze Age cooking pot from Tell Abu al-Kharaz. (photo courtesy
of Dr. Peter M.
Fischer).
|
Reconstruction
of the 3,100-year-old building unearthed at Tell Abu al-Kharaz. Image credit:
University of Gothenburg. |
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